Reba McEntire had already become one of country music’s biggest stars when, in March 1991, her world changed in a matter of minutes.
After Reba performed a private concert in San Diego on March 15, members of her touring party boarded a charter plane headed toward the band’s next destination.
Shortly after takeoff in the early hours of March 16, the aircraft crashed into Otay Mountain.
Eight members of Reba’s band and crew were killed, along with the plane’s two pilots. Reba was not aboard the aircraft.
The people Reba lost weren’t simply employees who traveled with her.
They were friends. They were musicians she’d shared stages, buses, rehearsals and countless hours on the road with.
Years later, Reba admitted that she didn’t know whether she would be able to continue.
Even the thought of walking onto a stage again was difficult.
That’s when other members of the country music community began reaching out.
Vince Gill called and promised Reba that he would be there for her.
And then came Dolly Parton.
Dolly didn’t simply send flowers or offer condolences.
She offered Reba something she could actually use to rebuild what had suddenly been taken away.
Reba later recalled Dolly telling her:
“Here, take my band.”
Dolly was willing to make her own musicians available to Reba as she faced the almost unimaginable task of returning to work.
For Reba, the gesture became part of something much larger.
“It was such a gift to see how many people stepped forward to help,” she later said while remembering the support she received.
Reba eventually did return to the stage.
Just nine days after the crash, she performed at the Academy Awards. She later poured much of her grief into her album For My Broken Heart, dedicated to the bandmates she had lost.
The tragedy never disappeared from her memory.
Over the decades, Reba has repeatedly honored Chris Austin, Kirk Cappello, Joey Cigainero, Paula Kaye Evans, Jim Hammon, Terry Jackson, Tony Saputo and Michael Thomas.
But alongside the heartbreak remained another memory:
When Reba wasn’t sure how she could possibly put a band together and walk onto a stage again, Dolly Parton was willing to hand her the musicians from her own.
More than three decades later, Reba still remembered the offer.
And it says something about the friendship behind two of country music’s most famous names that, during one of Reba’s darkest moments, Dolly’s response wasn’t simply: