Fran Drescher just told the world the one rule she has for her gay ex-husband Peter Marc Jacobson — the man she was married to for 21 years, who later came out as gay and somehow became her absolute best friend and permanent travel companion.

Fresh off a trip to Berlin together she stood at the New York City Ballet Spring Gala at 68 in a stunning black lace gown and said the one thing about Peter that had everyone in earshot completely losing it — and the way she said it reminded every single person why nobody in Hollywood has ever been quite like Fran Drescher and nobody ever will be.